Stop the Drama: Biblical Parenting Regarding Tattling & Gossip

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Episode Summary

How to handle tattling and gossip while at the same time encouraging good open communication with you.

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In this episode Isaac and Angie discuss the very real need for parents to cultivate the kind of relationship with their children where they “tell them the necessary things” while also teaching the biblical approach to conflict resolution. What does the Bible teach regarding tattling and gossip, how do the two go hand in hand, and how does a parent teach children at different ages how to learn this skill of truth telling and caring for others while also being careful not to cross the line of gossip?

Parents must evaluate the spiritual maturity and emotional intelligence of their children, teach biblical truth and how it applies to us as we live out our lives as Christ followers! What a powerful and much needed topic to cover for parents of kids of all ages! This episode will be a favorite for a long time. 

Main points from this episode:

  • How to teach your children how to handle conflict
  • How to make sure they still come to you when it’s needed
  • When teaching your children not to tattle backfires and how to prevent it
  • How to handle mediation between siblings when it’s needed
  • The importance of teaching situational awareness

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Scriptures Mentioned In This Episode:

  • Matthew 18:15-17 “If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother. But if he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, that every charge may be established by the evidence of two or three witnesses. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. And if he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector.”
  • Ephesians 4:29 “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.”
  • Proverbs 19:11Good sense makes one slow to anger, and it is his glory to overlook an offense.”
  • James 1:19 “Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger;”
  • Proverbs 17:9 Whoever covers an offense seeks love,but he who repeats a matter separates close friends.”
  • Proverbs 21:23 Whoever keeps his mouth and his tongue keeps himself out of trouble.”

 

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Written By Angie Tolpin
Angie has been married to Isaac for 19 years and together they have eight children, whom she homeschools. She is the Founder of CourageousMom.com, a doula, the author of the best-selling book Redeeming Childbirth, and the creator of the first ever Christian Postpartum Course. Angie loves ministering to Women and has created a few online Bible Studies on Biblical Friendship and Motherhood.

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